Surviving a Bad Boss
It's bad enough that you have to work at a job that is less than ideal, then to make matters worse, you have to survive a bad boss on top of it. That's not to say that everyone dislikes their jobs, but many people do, to them its just a paycheck.
How Can You Fix Your Manager?So what are you to do about it? How will you make it through another day? What can you do to at least make dealing with your annoying boss more manageable? There will be three steps to the solution that we discuss in this process. First, you will need to determine what it is that makes your supervisor so insufferable for whom to work. What actions or behaviors does he or she exhibit that you want to change? Second, why does your manager do these things? Do they have personality issues, or are they just lousy managers lacking the proper set of skills? Last, a plan needs to be devised and executed in an attempt to correct these problems. If nothing works, you may have no other choice, but to find another job. You will have to decide that for yourself, you are the only one who can determine when you've had enough. So let's proceed to tackle this problem and endeavor to make your job and workplace better.
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What Do You Do About It?We have split this problem into three parts. It is simpler to solve a complex problem one piece at a time. We have listed each part below with an explanation of what each one is, what they mean, and what to do about them. OK now, let's begin
- What Issues Are You Dealing With?
Take some time to write down the specific issues that are causing you distress. Are you bullied, micromanaged, belittled, or harassed? Do you feel like you are being treated poorly or not as well as your coworkers? List each item then prioritize them according to the level severity. You could rate each item from one to ten with one being mildly annoying and ten being the most intolerable. Don't nitpick; this is serious business you are looking for real problems.
- Why Does Your Boss Act This Way?
There are many reasons why your boss may be exhibiting this behavior. They may not realize that they are causing you pain. They may be so focused on their ambition and success that they are oblivious to your feelings. Not that this is an excuse, but they could be getting pressure from upper management to perform, or to get that big account. Make a subtle attempt to find out what is at the root of their bad behavior. You could speak to your coworkers about this difficulty if it is appropriate to do so. If you are a secretary for example, and you are privy to your supervisor's phone calls, emails, letters or other correspondence, you could keep an eye out for anything that may offer clues as to why they do what they do. Take notice if they talk about their personal life, small snippets of information may slip out that could shed some light on why they act this way.
Being a bad boss as a result of a person's lack of skills can be more easily remedied. A boss can be a bad manager because they are not trained properly for the position. If this is the case, proper training should affect how they conduct themselves. If the supervisor doesn't know how to perform their job in the correct way being instructed to do so should help them to be better at management.
Being a bad boss as a result of past personal experiences can be remedied more easily. Being ridiculed or bullied themselves incorrectly teaches them how to interact with people improperly. Having an unhealthy upbringing or not being well socialized could also be lumped into this category.
Another reason could be that they have personality problems. Having personality problems means that they don't think like normal people and don't know how to act and treat others. This behavior could be due to a medical condition or other environmental factors. It is more difficult dealing with a psychological situation. There could be a medical issue, such as a chemical imbalance that requires treatment. If your boss doesn't get that treatment, then you could be out of luck because on some level their behavior may be the result of a biological condition.
Some businesses have a subculture of accepting bad behavior because it has “always been that way” from the top down. Middle management follows suit; then, these actions get handed down to the lower ranks. If your boss' manager has adopted this mindset too, then it can be difficult to cause change. How can you complain about your supervisor to their supervisor when their supervisor does the same thing? A tongue twister? Say that three times fast.
- What Can You Do About It?
These explanations all sound great, but how does it help make your work life better? You are probably thinking “Maybe I should just quit and work somewhere else.” That is certainly an option although you may like the people there, not your boss, the salary, the hours and the job duties themselves. Everything might be good except for the aggravation your boss creates. Nothing is guaranteed, but you could try a few strategies before you throw in the towel. Disclaimer: Be advised that any time you confront your boss or make waves, you could receive negative repercussions as a result of your well-intentioned efforts.